I’ll never forget my world history teacher getting into an argument with our class. She was adamant that it did not matter whether you look a regular level class or an honors level class, only that you learned something and maybe even fell in love with the subject. It was clear to us that she was on another planet. We were bolstering our resumes and trying to figure out which club memberships would give us the best shot at getting into a top university and finding a decent job. The little ‘H’ next to the course name on our transcripts mattered immensely to admissions officers, so it in turn mattered to us. The saddest part, aside from the fact that she was right and we wouldn’t listen, was that my little high school class had really only pulled away one small layer of the onion. We didn’t really have a clue about the importance of having a strong network or parents who could find us the perfect summer internship. In fact, many of my classmates had probably already lost the race against kids who had been building resumes, skills and talents since their first kindergarten interview.
I think the scariest part about power and inequality in society is that you often don’t know where you stand and what advantages other people have over you or the advantages you have over others. When they are clear, societies and individuals can make better decisions. If you discover you’re paid less than a co-worker, you can negotiate for more. If your child is attending a low-quality school, you can move into a better district or find a tutor (assuming you can afford it). If you see children and families struggling, you develop or support helpful policies.
Of course, one can always go back and look at people who have made it ahead in the world despite not having a solid family or diploma from a top school but those people are few and far in between. We get excited about them and tout them not because everyone can be like them but because they are unusual – that rare combination of guts, drive and luck. Be honest, have you ever read a biography of Steve Jobs were it didn’t mention that he was a college drop out? There seems to be some sort of shock at his success mixed with envy. What I don’t understand is why there isn’t an opposite side. Why don’t we have compassion and understanding for the vast majority of people who we know deep down will never make it out of their situation? There seems to be something almost hypocritical about being surprised when people make it out of a tough situation and similarly shocked when they do not. I understand the deep discomfort with the idea that occasionally someone might need a hand out before they can take a hand up. What if they decide not to get up and your investment is lost? Why should one give and give and give when you have your own dreams, aspirations and goals? I agree that there are some fair points from this angle too and it is important to think through the right way to help other individuals.
In my opinion, I believe there can be a balance and that it doesn’t have to be a zero-sum game. Helping others, bringing them into the general narrative and sharing power – on both the micro and macro levels – can lead to benefits for the greater good. Madam C.J. Walker was lucky and resourceful, but what if she hadn’t been subject to segregation? Would we have ten times as many female entrepreneurs and CEOs today? Would countries around the world be arguing over whether to have boardroom quotas for females? What if we taught children in science class about Marie Curie or Rosalind Franklin the same way we teach them about Albert Einstein and Isaac Newton? Would we be struggling to get more girls into science and engineering careers the way we are now? What if we looked at war torn countries and thought about the people there as human beings similar to us? Would we rethink how we provide foreign aid to ensure that it actually went into the right hands? How can we turn all of these ‘what if’ statements into ‘what now’ statements? What can we do now to shift power in a way that benefits all of us in the end?
Sometimes you make it for yourself and unfortunately, in some cases, other people decide your fate for you. Maybe, more than anything else, power is really just an attitude mixed with the right resources – people, money, training, preparation and a sprinkle of luck – at the right time. It is about believing that you can escape a riot, that you can overturn a dictator or that you can become the first female CEO of the company. Getting to that point is a process. It does not happen overnight. The question is – if you have these beliefs, will there be a government, a scholarship programme, parent, mentor, teacher or loved one there to help make a cardinal appear?